If I have a boyfriend, but I’m unsure of my feelings for another boy, do i break up with my boyfriend? Do i tell the other boy? Even if I work with him? What do i do?! How do i know what i want?
(Someone sent this in my ask box but it wont let me reply.) This is a hard one. Everyone’s entitled to crushes whilst they’re dating. I’m extremely attracted to James Franco and this cute boy at my own work. But, when I get home and I’m with my man, I love absolutely everything about him and I know there’s no wat that James Franco or Work Boy could relate with me or make me feel the way he does. However, I believe I am going to be with Thomas for a very long time and I wouldn’t ruin that for anything. But, if I wasn’t so sure of our future, I would probably leave him for some play time with Work Boy. There would be nothing for me to lose then. If a break-up is enevitable, why not make it sooner rather than later? However, if you do plan on spending your future with your boyfriend, maybe you should distance yourself from this boy at work and work harder on your relationship. Remember what it was that made you fall in love with him, because sometimes we forget. And everyone gets a little unhappy in their relationship, but relationships are work. It’s easy to fantasise about leaving for someone else we find attractive and having it be all easy and breezy, but that’s not reality. You’ve got to work at it and not take what you have for granted. x
